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LUKSA
Posted by Jojo
February 27, 2008


While eating this lunch, a friend of mine told me that her uncle just got burried. Siyempre nagCondolence ako. On the funeral and burial, she said that their all wearing white. Yung parang pangkasal. Shouldn’t it be black? Kasi nagluluksa sila dahil me namatay sa kanila, dba? Then, after the burial, she said that their family went to tagaytay and had their lunch there. Picnic? Whoa!

I’m imagining it more likely celebration than a burial. That’s the time i asked myself... Dapat ba tayong magluksa when our love ones die?

Spirits go to heaven after death, they say. If so, bakit kelangan tayong malungkot? Shouldn’t we be happy that at last our love ones will go to their final resting place. A place where there is no envy, no hate and no suffering. A place where there is full love and prosperity.

Siguro nga masaya sa langit. If only there’s one person that can tell us what heaven looks like. How happy it is to be there. Then maybe, it will be easier for us to accept everything.

Now, ask yourself, should you be happy? I, personally, am so saddened to think that one day, maybe tomorrow, one of my love ones is going to die. I don’t know when and how. But i know, it will happen. Dapat ba akong magsaya?

I don’t think so.... coz i know that it’ll hurt, a lot.... i can’t imagine how i’ll feel when that time come. Talk is cheap! It’s so easy to say "BE HAPPY, your love one is going to heave afterall!" F**K. Masakit kaya yun.... masakit dahil hindi mo na siya makikita, hindi mo na sa mahahawakan. What will remain are just memories, memories of how happy you were when they’re still around.

Kung ikaw naman ang mamamatay, nakakalungkot. Kasi hindi ka na makakasama sa mga saya ng mga mahal at kaibigan mo. No more gimmicks, no more hang-outs. But hey! you’re going to heaven... Yeah right. I should be happy, but i don’t know how it feels to be in heaven....

Maybe it’s earthly to be sad when our love ones dies. Because it’s GOD who’s taken them and get them on his side. Makalupa na kung makalupa! I’m still a human. A weakling who’ll never understand the true meaning God’s Love.



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re: LUKSA
PM THIS USERPosted By anonymous on Jun/09/2008 23:21 PM
Meron talagang mga taong ayaw express yung sadness nila pag namatayan sila. Gusto nilang ipakita na masaya sila dahil mapupunta na sa heaven yung namatay. Pero deep inside, msakit yun.

Magkakaiba naman tayo ng way of showing our feelings. yung iba they prefer to hide their feelings, minsan you have to show courage. Kung lahat na lang kayo manghihina, pano na? Yun ang mas mahirap, pag ikaw ang dapat magpakita ng lakas. Ang hirap nun, kelangan mong humanap ng ibang lugar para ilabas yung feelings mo. Kelangan matatag ka, sa harap ng mga mahal mo kelangan ikaw ang haligi.

re: LUKSA
PM THIS USERPosted By anonymous on Jun/06/2008 01:57 AM
Sad
nagfil ko n din kc yan ung nawalan ng mahal sa buhay..
masaket OO,mhirap tnagapin at first peO ang insip ko n lng, para ndi ako masaktan ng masyado is, masaya n cia kung san cia nandun,kc alm kong kai god cia pupunta.
kya naging masaya n din ako.

first tym ko kc nawalan so, indi ako familiar sa hurt n ganun pala paginiwan k na..
ang saket saket.halos matulala k na..dahil sa nangyare..
n ask ko p nga c god kung bket nia kinuha agad.. sana a little more tym pa..

peO ganun talga ang life, pinhiram lng kc nia satin to.. kaya anytym n like niang bawiin babawiin nia...

after ng burial..
dun n feel ng family ko ung emptyness..sobra..
nkakapanibagO.msasabi mo nlng na iba pala pag wala cia...

ilng months din ung ndi kni nkrecover..
kc andin parin ung saket..
perO msaya n rin paginisp mo na akai lord n cia at happy n cia dun..



PM THIS USERPosted By anonymous on Feb/27/2008 21:35 PM
Siguro depende yun sa paraan ng pagkamatay ng mahal mo.

Kung may sakit siya tapos naghihirap, msa madaling tanggapin. Pero yung biglaan, yung talagang unexpected, mahirap siguro.

Sa pagluluksa naman, siguro way lang natin yun to express na nalulungkot tayo dahil wala na yung mahal natin.

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